Oprah’s Weight Gain…Just Another Catchy Headline?

I admit, when I saw Oprah all over the news for her recent weight gain, I jumped at the chance to write about it.  But as I was writing, I changed my mind.  I really didn’t think that you needed to read about another celebrity’s struggles with weight. Don’t get me wrong, I like Oprah (unlike some of the other celebrities that can’t seem to stay away from the headlines) and I respect her A LOT for all that she’s accomplished.

I think it’s incredibly brave of her to come out and let the entire world know about her weight problem.  Can you imagine?  Once you make the headlines, you’re like an open target for anyone to shoot you down with judgement and criticism.  But if you know Oprah, you can be sure she’ll use her problem as an example and put a positive spin on it to shed more light on the very serious problem of obesity and the general decline of health in America.

So why did I stop writing about Oprah’s infamous weight gain?

The reason is that I don’t have an inkling of an idea as to what her personal situation is, therefore, I don’t feel like I have the right to comment about her struggles with weight.  Being that I’m in the health and fitness industry, I’ve worked with many clients battling weight issues.  And even though the problems are often the same, the underlying causes of each person’s issues are very different.

I don’t know why Oprah has struggled with weight all her life, but one thing is certain—her problem is not unique. There are millions of people that go through what she’s going through (just not so publicly). The reasons are likely complicated (possibly medical) and deeply rooted (emotional), which are commonly the case for so many that suffer the roller coaster ride of weight gain and weight loss.

However, I can speak for myself and the people I’ve personally helped get back into shape and stay in shape.

As simple as it sounds, there are 2 words that I’ve found to be very powerful when setting in motion a commitment to change.


1. Responsibility
2. Accountability

These 2 basic, yet life-changing words have personally helped me as well as many people I’ve worked with, stay on track with their health and fitness. I always visualize those words written on a post-it note (probably because I have sticky notes everywhere in my office).  It just seems to stick (no pun intended!) in my head better when I visualize things this way.

How I’ve Become Responsible & Accountable

When it comes to health we’ve all got different issues, but it’s how we deal with them that matters.  Personally, I have digestive problems, which have plagued me from a very young age and to this day are still undiagnosed.  It’s a constant battle.  BUT, I’ve found that by making myself both responsible and accountable I’m able to maintain good health more consistently.

Once I took responsibility for my own health issues, I was able to see myself dealing with things differently, which affected my health in a positive way. I realized that by not taking care of myself, I was not only hurting myself but also the people around me.  When I get sick my entire family suffers.  Just like with weight problems, feeling bad (emotionally or physically) brings about a great deal of negativity.  But, if you don’t take care of yourself, how can you honestly take care your family or be supportive to your friends?

How You Can Be More Accountable & Responsible For Your Health

I’ve found that surrounding myself with like minded and supportive people has helped me tremendously.  A social support system keeps you accountable in a good way—keeping you on track through positive reinforcement.

The same goes for your workouts.  Having a workout partner is a great way to make yourself responsible and accountable for maintaining your fitness.  Plus, it’s always more fun to go through a workout with a partner. A little push goes a long way! 

If you don’t have a workout partner, just the simple act of letting your friends and family know that you are starting a journey to be healthier almost forces you to take action.  Suddenly, you’re accountable to these people when they start asking you questions like, “how’s it going?”.  What’s your answer going be? 

The Big Lesson

So the lesson here isn’t just about how we shouldn’t judge or criticize Oprah for her weight gain.  Instead learn from her.  Be accountable and responsible for your own health.  You have this one body and one life to live.  Make it a good one.

My question to you today is, what do you do (or what are you going to do) to be accountable and responsible for your health and fitness? 

About The Author

Shin Ohtake is a widely recognized strength coach and fitness & fat-loss expert. His unconventional, no-nonsense approach to getting fit has made him the go-to source for fitness enthusiasts and trainers alike. Shin is also the author of the world famous, MAX Workouts book, which has transformed and reshaped the bodies of thousands of people across the globe - without requiring hours in the gym. To learn more about how MAX Workouts can help you achieve your fitness goals, visit maxworkouts.com.
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LaDell says: 12/16 03:09 PM

I find lists help me. I just made a spreadsheet for my workouts that track exercises, time, calories burned, high and average heart rate, and percentage of time burning fat. (It’s on my Polar heart rate monitor, so I include it.) I feel “rewarded” when I write down all that detail. Also, I feel motivated not to leave a day blank. I seem to need a visual reward.

Shin Ohtake says: 12/16 03:14 PM

Ladell,

Great tip. I find visual reminders very effective as well!

Susan says: 12/16 03:18 PM

Couldn’t agree more.  I always liked the saying, “What’s it going to be—reasons or results?”  Too many people making too many excuses instead of taking action.  If I even feel the slightest bit motivated to do something, I act RIGHT AWAY.

LaDell, love your spreadsheet idea!

Lorraine says: 12/16 03:33 PM

I wanted to write this for any doubters that may just be reading…....

Earlier this year my grandson was born with a vert rare & very serious heart defect (hypoplastic left heart syndrome) which means the left side of his heart hadn’t developed proplerly while in the womb & would (without 3 open heart surgeries in the the first few years of his life) be inconsistent with life…..sadly my little guy died of a blocked shunt aged 8 weeks old. So as you can imagine this year has been hell for me…..couple that with having to deal with a right foot that doesn’t work due to a spinal cord injury I sustained 4 years ago & you may understand why I’ve also had extreme back pain (lower) so bad I couldn’t even go shopping as standing around was too painful…....when my little guy died I decided then & there it was either hit the gym (I’ll never exercise at home, can’t stand getting sweaty in my front room thanks) or hit the bottle (alcohol) yes! it got that bad. I’ve always been a fan of working with weights (body or free) but never got around to it with a family of 5 kidto raise (excuses)

Soooo! hit the gym I did to workout with weights…..now 5 months after hitting the gym I no longer have any back pain whatsoever. I’ve (5 weeks ago) had surgery on my right foot to correct a toe that had gone south all by it’s self (after the spinal cord injury) so I’ve been stuck indoors for 5 weeks, but I get the pin removed on monday & then I’m back on my bike (I cycle daily) once again & back to the gym too…...I’d die without my workouts. They’ve saved me not just from the deep depression that I very probably would have gone into…...but very probably suicide too & I no longer have to take any meds…..I was amazed how fast my strength (physical & emotional) built up & was seeing muscle growth in a matter of weeks & I’m 53.

Sorry to have waffled on so much….but I just can’t shout about the benefits of taking responsibility for ourselves enough. The last thing I want is to have to have someone doing stuff for me when I get older because I chose not to take responsibility for myself now while I still can.
Thanks for all your help & your newsletters are really encouraging to me.
((hugs)) Funky x

Shin Ohtake says: 12/16 03:49 PM

Hi Lorraine,

I’m so sorry about your loss.

I think your story should be told to everyone that’s gone through or going through the hardest of times. Your story in very inspiring!
Thank you for opening up and sharing that with us.

Susan says: 12/16 03:56 PM

Wow Lorraine, I can’t imagine going through all that you have.  I’m so very sorry about your grandson.  You are one strong lady!

I’ve had the same results regarding back pain and working out.  I just turned 30 and workout regularly, but sometimes I get lazy and I notice that my lower back gets a little stiff and achey (nothing major, but enough to bother me).  That’s when I know it’s time to hit the gym.  And voila! Almost immediately, I get relief. 

I can see though, how some people might think that they CAN’T workout because they have pain, but it’s quite the opposite, just as you and I have experienced.  Hopefully other can benefit from our comments smile

Yvonne says: 12/17 01:26 AM

I have just given up my gym membership and started doing long walks to and from work, I take a longer route now and wear my pedometer (its the one from weightwatchers)it gives me activity points if I have gone over 8,000 steps and if I reach my target of 10,000 I usually find I make at least 1-2 points in a day, I also walk for 20 minutes in the afternoon. In the mornings I do some palates/yoga to keep my body strength up to standard, I must admit I find what I am doing much better than going to the gym and pounding on the treadmill or the crosstrainer, I also find it much better not having to spend £450.00 in a year to do something I can get better results from by walking and doing strength training at home.
I must admit its reading your articles that has spurred me on to do this and not waste my time going to and from the gym, which takes me nearly an hour to get to. Its all about leaving work, then getting on the bus to get there, getting changed and then starting my work out. I am much fitter and my body shape has changed, so thank you Shin for your advice.

Maggie says: 12/17 01:42 AM

Hi, the first step I took was to google strength training, thats how I found this site, I liked it so much & find the constant pep talks inspiring.  Four years ago I had a prolapsed disc, C6/C7, i opted out of surgery & with the help of a chiropracter it has slowly begun to mend. I find I am able to commit to shorter workouts as opposed to long ones. I’m a trained massage therapist & wish to get back in shape to get back to work, my clients are very supportive, this is my motivation to keep going.  Thanks Shin, your a god send.

Carol says: 12/17 06:32 AM

I am sure none of us can imagine what it is like to struggle while millions witness or have instant access to information about a very personal struggle.  Kudos to you for not jumping on the tabloid bandwagon, especially not knowing the whole person or situation. 
I have done extremely well with my fitness and weight loss journey (102 lbs gone).  For the past nine months, I have been stuck in a plateau and still struggle with the magic secret that will unlock it.  My drive to NOT return to my previous lifestyle and weight is what keeps me going.  I have visual reminders everywhere.  Every 4 - 6 weeks, I try something new to see if that will make the difference and break the plateau.  I have faith that this too will pass and my journey has provided many priceless lessons along the way and many new friends and supporters to lean on.  My focus remains forward, but I do retain the lessons and memories of the past.

JANE says: 12/17 10:57 AM

grin I have a eating log every week so that i can see all the good day’s and the bad day’s.How much caffeine i have,how much fruit,water intake.How much excersize i do.These help to keep me on excersizing.To be accountable and take responsiblity.

Zach Williams says: 12/18 05:32 AM

Hey guys and girls!  I am a personal trainer in Austin Tx.  After reading yall’s stories I just wanted to congratulate you on all your hard work and success. I am very proud of each one of you.  Everyone above is doing something a litte bit different than the other and i think that’s great.  Find what works best for you and do it.  Keep giving 100%!  And keep listening to Shin.  Shin is right on the money about everything.  Thanks Shin for all your time and hard work and devotion you give towards us!  Stay consistent everybody! God Bless!
Zach

Lorraine aka Funky says: 12/18 07:35 AM

“Find what works best for you and do it”

Hi Zach…..I totally agree with that statement. I (because of my spinal cord injury & a foot that hasn’t wanted to work properly) haven’t been able to walk loads…..so I learned to cycle at the age of 51 (dont laugh) I couldn’t bear being stuck indoors all the time, I then went on to do the London to Brighton bike run (53 miles) with my 22 yr old daughter & since then I just haven’t been able to stop cycling. It gradually built up the muscle that was wasted in my right calve….....I did a few sprints of aerobics etc with my daughter at some classes she booked, but it all seemed futile to me.

I kept thinking on the weights thing as I’d learned years ago how good it was & spent like all my free time on the internet “mixing” with others that did weights too, gradually educating myself. (I don’t do the weights machines at all) only body or free.

The rest as you can see from my story is history…..my foot against all that the doctors told me is now working I would say back to around 65%.....trust me it just hung at the bottom of my leg to start with, the nerve was severed & wasn’t able to receive the appropriate messages from my brain…...but I’ve trained other muscles to operate my foot…..I’m not one to give in…..if I did I’d know it was time to slit my throat. I know when I’m working out at the gym that the girls on the running machines give me strange looks & some have asked if I wanna be like muscle bound…...if it was that easy the steriod business would be out of business & all the women in the armies would be like men….they’re not. So I plug on. I’ve even re-learned how to run again when to begin with I could barely walk. I’m not showing off or trying to say my story is something amazing, I just want to let people know it is possible (depending on the type of injury of course) I only can talk from personal experience.

I’ve been totally hooked on slimming pills (sometimes 10 or more amphetamines a day) since I was first prescribed them back in the 70’s as a 17 year old girl…..I then (after they got banned in the UK) found a way to buy them privately, I’ve been bulimic & anorexic…..only now that I’m finally doing this the proper way am I getting real results…...I’m proud of myself for that, which does amazing things for the confidence.

I agree with you, everyone here is doing brilliantly & we should all keep going with what works best for us.
((hugs)) Funky x

Lorraine aka Funky says: 12/18 07:39 AM
Dawn Clark says: 12/29 10:52 AM

Hi Shin, thanks for this thought provoking article. 

The most important bit of wisdom I can give is that I have to remind myself EVERY DAY that the weight loss I have achieved is so much more important the the immediate gratification of any treat I might put into my mouth. Weight loss is 80% in the kitchen.

Fitness is in the movement, and the same goes for this area.  Every day I must remind myself that I keep fit by moving my body and challenging my muscles, other is no other way to do it.

Being fit and staying fit is a mental game for me.  It has to be more important the the easier way out.  What ever the reasons for getting out of shape, or remaining out of shape, and there are many, there is only one path to getting back into shape.

herbalife says: 03/17 05:05 AM

Physical exercise is any bodily activity that raises the heart rate above its resting level and enhances or maintains physical fitness and overall health. It is performed for many different reasons. These include: strengthening muscles and the cardiovascular system, honing athletic skills, weight loss or maintenance and for enjoyment. Frequent and regular physical exercise boosts the immune system, and helps prevent the “diseases of affluence” such as heart disease, cardiovascular disease, Type 2 diabetes and obesity. It also improves mental health and helps prevent depression. Childhood obesity is a growing global concern and physical exercise may help decrease the effects of childhood obesity in developed countries.
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